Sexting is the stepping stone towards sexuality
Says Banty Barman, author of a love story book. It gives tremendous satisfaction for those who can’t meet their partner due to distance, privacy or any other reason. It’s a favourable way to sustain the romance and intimacy in our love life with just portraits and phrases where we cannot get personally entangled. I have got a kick out of the incredible sexting with my school life girlfriend. People are sexting for hours and hours, skipping their doze at night and having the stunning sensation of their partner. A soothing touch of their cheesy words makes the other partner feel heaven. If you are good at flirting you can easily show them the moon and stars with your romantic messages.
A temporary pleasure for a tent size risk
Nowadays especially the teens, involve in it while craving pleasure for with ease. Due to internet facility at a young age, they sip the elixir of lust for the first time. Oblivious with its outcome they take the risk.
Despite pleasure, it became a medium of developing trust and strengthening the bond between the partners involved. Teens after moving towards a relationship for the first time, opt sexting first rather than getting physical. They use it as a checking machine if the other partner wants to engage with them. It’s effortless to convince for sexting to those who are not comfortable getting ingested at an early age.
The yearning for opposite sex attracts due to the hormonal change and sexting is better than watching adult videos, while touching ourselves another way round. Especially among boys, it became a medium to judge the loyalty of their partner in their so-called love.
If you sexted you committed forever
It is quite common nowadays, those who are not in a nuclear family, it’s a big concern for dating our partner. Some children don’t have their room where they can enjoy with their comrade. For them, sexting helps to date every day and every night and every second, whenever they wish. Even people sext at school and college. There is a myth in children which is disrupting their future, they think sexting makes them cool. Just because of this stupid reason they forward double meaning jokes to their friend circle as a daring or challenge.
Talking naughty is the door towards the bed
Apart from these, it also became a medicine of depression. Teens enjoy attractive figures of their fantasies which invigorate them and they forget their depression. Children use this trick to satisfy their urge of having fantasies in their arm. Some boys pressurise to become their partner explicit or else break up would be the outcome.
Apart from all these pleasure and enjoyment, there are consequences of sexting too. You don’t even know our partner likes our physical appearance or not. Attracting with messages is quite easy but with the figure is a little bit difficult. It creates enormous self-doubt if the other person dislikes the physical appearance. It breaks the enthusiasm within young child and it may imprison them within their mind.
Teens hate themselves once rejected by their fantasy
Sometimes, they start with the commitment and later on step back which leads the other partner to take revenge by making public their undressed pictures. The innocents don’t even know their pictures are getting saved in their partner’s mobile. Even after requesting for a delete, some people don’t delete and share with their friends (if you know what I mean). This happens most in boys.
Leakage of the bare image of oneself leads to mental illness and anxiety
Girls have jumped from the terrace and hanged from the ceiling to avoid the anxiety-busting their mind. Even reports and facts say lots of girls have committed suicide because of their dishonest partner leaking their chats and nostalgic images. They use those images in porn videos. You might get shocked seeing your image in some adult website just because you left your partner in the middle of a relationship. Not even the child their parents too are facing lots of troubles just because of their ward’s mistake. Slander and taunts are common for a victim of sexting. Rumours easily spread among boys and it makes a character of a girl next to a prostitute. One must think before going ahead. We should not be in hurry. Proper judgement and belief must be there before sharing yourself with other.
Overall we can say it may leads to :
- Desire for getting physical
- Hampering self image
- Suicide and anxiety
- Inferiority complex
- Distraction from goal
(If you liked my writing, I assure that you will like my love story book too. It is full of romance, twist, suspense, tears and other heart melting moments. I have shown what a boy can do when he is mad in love. To have a look click here.)