Why some people are more emotional in love

“Love can be just a word or a completely different world, there’s nothing in-between” 

Says Banty Barman, author of a love story book ‘A Mistake that changed my Life’. Love cannot be seen easily like rain, it is felt in several moments as tiny droplets of fog. Sometimes it’s cool breezes freeze our heart and sometimes the warmth of love encircles our life to radiate our soul.

I must tell you, I was very emotional in love. I used to consider my sweetheart my entire world and just because of this reason I was more emotional in love. Though my world is not in my world any more and I am sharing this from my experience of ten incredible years in love.

Imagine a situation where two children put a coin in a piggy bank every day and doing it for hundred days. One child puts five rupees coin and the other puts one rupee coin. After hundred days, the one who gave one rupee coin gets hundred rupees and the other who gave five rupees gets five hundred. To get more in future the first child contributed more than the second one and when he got to know he will get more in future he became more concerned about putting a coin daily and caring for that piggy bank. In the same way, when two people put their efforts every day to continue their relationship deliciously. Oblivious to the fact, their efforts contain their emotions too and the one who contribute more on daily basis, that person becomes more emotional in love.

Love happens from the attraction

When we are highly attracted to someone, we think we are in love and when we feel so, we live in a dilemma, whether the person is the one I was looking for or not. With time being when we realise, that person is the person I was looking for, we start considering that person our everything we want to live life happily in this damn world. From that particular moment, we start putting efforts like hell. The more efforts we give to continue our relation the more emotional we become. This is the major reason for most of us.

Apart from this, there are other reasons too. When we are far away from our near and dear ones we feel emptiness. Our world looks incomplete and we crave for love. When it goes on and on for a long time, our desire to get love from someone start vanishing and the moment we get someone’s love we become desperate to get that person in our life and the desperation makes us more emotional.

Love itself is an emotion

So, getting emotional in love means loving from the extreme corner of our heart. It is good that someone is more emotional in love as because in this damn world people choose our emotions to play rather than PUBG.

Sometimes people are emotional from their early childhood because their parents used to feed them emotions instead of food. When this kind of people comes into a relationship, they are emotional from the very beginning and after getting a little bit of love they start releasing their emotions within the cave of their heart.

So overall we can say people become more emotional because of

1. Giving extra efforts

2. Craving for love

3. Born emotionally

Comment if you know more reason but remember it’s good to be more emotional in love.

Being more emotional is not a drawback, it’s fortune for our partner

(If you liked my writing, I assure that you will like my love story book too. It is full of romance, twist, suspense, tears and other heart melting moments. I have shown what a boy can do when he is mad in love. To have a look click here.)