THE DEMON OF SEXUAL ASSAULT!

After a proffered day of blooming and giving out happiness with those happy faces, although adorned with the thorns it was time for those flowers to take some rest.

It was that hour of the time when every child was sworn that if they don’t sleep the demons underneath their beds would eat them, as a child I was also sworn for the very same thing but nobody ever told me that the real demons were not beneath our beds that t was just a way of making us fall asleep, the real demons were the ones that nobody acknowledged or let us acknowledged, they were the ones which moved around in bright daylight dressed just like humans.

THE DEMONS ATE CINDERELLA!

As I stand on this pedestal, the mirror image formed by that in man-hole filled with water I could see a reflection of me, of my skin without those scars, a reflection of my beautiful soul not scarred by that demon and a reflection of my pretty face, but as the cars ran by and the water splashed that image became distorted.

That distorted image reminded me of all the bad touch, the scars that man has put on me not only on my face and body but on my soul too.

You know when we pour out the milk and water to make some tea and that is so crystal clear without the leaves but as soon as you add tea leaves the clarity goes away, those small particles of tea leaves gather all over the whiteness of the milk giving it a different texture.

The same way that man which was supposedly my uncle whom I considered as the man after my father died and who was the “best uncle”, scarred my soul.

Why did I never understand that those chocolates were just a way to come close to me, to touch me in inappropriate ways and that man didn’t even deserve to be called uncle, he was a demon who made me so scared that I even started to share my own reflection?

Those scars he gave me couldn’t even be washed away from any soap.

I even am scared to touch myself now because of the way he touched me, looked at me.

Not even the religious purifications could wash away those scars, those memories and that touch.

I was someone who loved the night sky, those glowing fireflies and those stars but now I am scared to even step out of my house just after the clock ticks 7 p.m.

I still don’t know why I wasn’t made familiar with these demons, who would crawl up my bed every time the streets were covered with the darkness of light and little light shone over by the moon.

Why wasn’t I made aware that these demons exist masked as humans and are much scarier than those bedtime demons and those demons might once become our friends but these demons would eat us alive?

SEXUAL ABUSE AND IT’S CAUSES

It can be defined as someone taking advantage of somebody or termed as molestation by one person onto another.

There are many reasons why something like this is still prevalent in our society:

CLOTHING

Many people argue that because of the way women dress things like this happens. “WOMEN CALL FOR IT”.

“TOH KYA HUM KAPDE PEHNNA CHOD DE”.

Even females who dress according to the rules of which society has prescribed for them they still face issues like these. So I feel it’s wrong to say that clothing has something to do with it.

LOW STATUS OF WOMEN

Yet another reason for this is because women are not treated with proper status as they should be which also leads to a situation like these.

LACK OF PUBLIC SAFETY

Yet another reason is that the women are not given the proper safety that is needed for them, there is no public safety which also leads to situations like these.

SOURCE: https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/worldviews/wp/2012/12/29/india-rape-victim-dies-sexual-violence-proble/

GIRL’S ASSEMBLE: LET’S FIGHT IT OUT!

Yes, I know being a girl is not easy there are a lot of restrictions and a lot of things we have to face but it’s time we get up and fight for it.

Let’s all get up and be the black widow, Hermoine granger who kicked out everybody, let’s become the girl that everybody would shiver even while looking at you.

This is a difficult world to live in but let’s mould it into something which is easy for us to live in.

Let’s help out each other and let’s fight out all the demons there.