QUESTIONING YOUR OWN IDENTITY

‘WHY AM I SO FAT’? “WHY I HAVE THIS PLUMPY NOISE”? “WHY AM I SO SHORT’’?

WHO HAS AN ANSWER TO ALL THESE QUERIES?

We have inculcated our minds with such questions that they act as an insidious quirk to our brain that if we let these in these questions can drive us absolutely batty. Living in this internet era where the number of likes on your Instagram profile determines whether you are pulchritudinous or just a humdrum kind of a chap in this illusionary world.

Quite disheartening isn’t it? Not only this but also your college the place where you go to grasp knowledge and become the best version of yourself and in order to explore your inhibitions in other fields is a status symbol it emphasizes the fact that you are on a higher pedestal if you are studying in ‘THE DELHI UNIVERSITY’.

If you are studying in this college then you know everything under the sun you are the intellectual, the prodigy and on the other hand, the one who is pursuing their graduation from some private college like Amity University is nothing more than a spoiled brat or a loser because he hears these phrases used for him that ‘THE ONE WHO HAS NOTHING HAS AMITY’. Who actually made these phrases? On what basis are we classifying and differentiating every other human and creating mental coercion in their own heads about their own self.

When we give a glance at the home page of our profile in these social media handles we come across people who are having the best time of their lives.

Their luxurious lives where some sixteen years old has got a Ferrari for her birthday and oh did I forgot to mention about Instagram reels where people are dancing on their favorite songs and showcasing their own talents and then after seeing all this we compare ‘WHAT KIND OF UNCOOL LIVES WE ARE LIVING’ and think that we are stuck at home and thinking how are life sucks even more than we thought.

As we all aware of this fact that very few animals on earth have the ability to think cogent thoughts but we ‘humans’ have this power that we think about our own thoughts.

The beauty of being a human. Coming to the worst part that gets us into trouble as we start suspecting our own emotions we feel guilty for feeling guilty, we get angry about getting angry and moreover we get anxious about feeling anxious and end up saying then ‘What is actually wrong with me today and why am I behaving so abnormally? The question that even goes in my head most of the time cause I cannot trust humans and I consider books as my sole companion and dogs.

WHY ARE WE GETTING SO AFFECTED? HOW CAN WE OVERCOME THIS?

What is your actual idea or feeling about your own self? We have an enormous amount of our time and energy to waste on condemning our own selves but have you ever thrown light on delving up to the actual reason.

This might astonish you. Now you would be wondering about this truth as we have never given importance to the fact that why are we getting so affected. So I will give you a minute to calm this noisy mind of yours and actually read this again.

To acknowledge what’s in front of one’s nose requires a constant struggle so we don’t practice this very often. But here we are finding thousand ways to measure our own worth how we aren’t good enough and the things aren’t as great as they should be.

You need to know that you have to believe in your individuality and do what you feel is correct always.

Trusting people is difficult but give yourself a chance but don’t ever allow anybody to trigger you or your emotions only you are the being responsible for your emotions and your peace of mind. I have gone through the worst phases of my life and claimed that I am just surrounded by snakes everywhere.

Quite wrong isn’t it. Look we all are different we need to rejoice in this uniqueness and spread love and gratitude everywhere to every being we are surrounded by. Bad incidents the incidents that actually teach us not to believe anybody we need to overcome from the grievances of our past to explore this world. Nobody has a good past.

There is a reason why this term is called the past that has happened don’t hold on to it holding on to it will only fill that heart of yours with agony. Let go of it of all the humans that have hurt you forgive them you know why? You aren’t doing anybody a favor by forgiving them you are doing yourself a favor.

It’s not others who are actually the reason for the way we are blaming ourselves but it’s our own mindset. So there is nothing wrong with leading a simple life that we love to there is nothing wrong with being the best version of our own self. Embrace yourself if you won’t love this soul nobody is going to love you.

Enjoy your own company more than anything else. It’s okay to fall every day don’t ever label yourself as a weak person or a useless one you aren’t get up every time you fall like the lion of your own cave. You know your priorities better than anybody out there.

So just prioritize effectively your dreams your ambitions your family and your friends. Delete the negative emotions and the frustration that has been going on in your head for all the unfulfilled desires. Make it a point to acknowledge your own thoughts the seeds that you plant.

Don’t nourish the seeds that are meant to be just seeds nothing else and delete them. You keep a check on the activities of the entire world then why not give You know what is important to you and what is good for your peace of mind better than anybody else. complete attention to your own self. Yes, You! The gold mine of cosmic intelligence and the boundless love that you already have. You are the creator and destroyer of your own galaxy. Nobody has the power to perturb you.

Your subconscious the reservoir of your emotions has the solution to all your problems. Every thought is the actual root of every situation you come up with.

Others have no power over you. . Now it’s time to bid goodbye to all the negativity surrounding you and it is time to wake up and take charge of your own life where you are the captain of your own soul and the master of your destiny.

Don’t be stunned I am not telling you something that is new to you. You are already aware of this but you haven’t ever given this much love and the right attention to your own-self but more on the external environment.

Don’t ever complete any type of negative affirmation doubting your own caliber that we can’t do this and we won’t able to afford this. If you cannot believe in your own self then you should not even keep doubting your own abilities.

You are the captain the only captain of this life of yours. Give the right commands to your subconscious who does what you want him to do who believes what you want him to believe and fill it with thoughts about gratitude, prosperity, and love. Repeat this affirmation to your own self before going to sleep like a lullaby that’’ I am the master of my own fate and I will prosper in all fields. I am a pure soul and nobody has the key to my emotions”. Change your mentality and you will change your destiny.