I came across an article which beautifully explained that what actually counseling is, skills people lack which are actually required and what can be done to overcome such problems.

Just like a wrong treatment by a doctor can harm a person, the same way counselling done in an inaccurate manner can damage a person's emotions, feelings and thoughts.

https://buddingpsychologists.org/challanges-related-to-counselling-and-how-to-overcome/