So I initially wanted to be a fashion designer but after my 12th still I opted for neet. Behind this decision there were a lot of factors like being good at academics I got scholarship and everyone one around me was doing the same and my parents also wanted me to do that. Due to some documentation issues I had to wait for 2 years to sit for the exam for the first time. So I knew it before hand so I didn't really studied in mt first drop year. But then in second year I tried my best my preparation was going good but then lockdown happened and everything got disturbed. I lost my schedule.. It affected my studies adversely. Then my exam got postponed 3 times which added to the stress more. I was going through a lot.. I used to cry at nights... I lost my appetite and then after giving my exam the results came and of course I didn't make it. I cried for almost 3 days and I thought I'll prepare for it again. But when I started my preparations again I didn't feel like doing it because I never really wanted to do it. So finally I took a decision to do what I really want to do. I convinced my parents to let me do BBA and now feeling better and I am really hopeful for mt future.. I am working hard. But this isn't the end.. My parents don't want me to do this and they're not really supportive with my decision .they think that BBA has no scope and I am not going to end somewhere good. and this makes me doubtful even about my own self and my decision. It scares me. But still when I go to study I enjoy doing that. Having no support scares me and still I sometimes get anxious but I am working and I am hopeful.
With this I wanna say just do what really wanna do.
anshika singh December 13, 2020 10:33 pm
Hey, I'm sorry for all that you had to go through and happy for you finally pursuing what you really want to. Just do what makes you feel good. Thankyou for this. It really made my day. 🙂
Yuvanue chauhan December 13, 2020 10:54 pm
Hello sanskriti,THANKS for sharing your experience. All the best for your future and the most important present .only thing i want to suggest you is to mind on your own thoughts ,even when you are alone .no negative thought should in your mind about yourself . edingston once said ,"The World is less like a thing and more like a thought".
Hey Sanskriti, I can not imagine the pressure you are against. But I think that you've made a good choice in selecting something that you want to do. It's you who'll sit at the job, it's you who'll get payed and most of all, it's you who will influence the world depending on what you chose. And I'm extremely happy that you chose what you loved.
Bba is actually a good choice. I suggest you do a little more research on it. I've had friends who've gone abroad to pursue it, see if it's an option for you.
Don't worry about the support you receive. As you go further in your journey, you'll find a lot of people to network with. In addition, you'll find friends and more family who'll support you. I hope you connect with more individuals who pursue Bba.
All the best!!
I know you will do your best in your BBA!! i am happy that now you are doing what you love
best wishes
Hey dear,
Never get disappointed when you don't get something, life might have some other plans for you!
As of pursuing BBA, it does have a scope, I can guarantee you. Do not fall into this false trap of considering some courses as elite and respectful professions while thinking of others as low. Your parents are very strict and orthodox I am supposing.
However, don't get worried and be persistent on what you want to do. Hope this helps. All the best!
I'm happy that you're finally doing something you like. All the best for your future! 🙂
Life is soo uncertain that sometimes all our preparations go waste and we start thinking what bad we did to deserve it. You were patience enough to wait and work hard. Everyone have their bad days and good days so do you had but i am glad that you got time to think over whether this is what you exactly wanted or not. All the best for your future!!!1
I hope you're in a better place now, kudos to you for standing up for yourself. Thank you for sharing your story ❤️ ❤️
