You should be proud of yourself. I think we all get ourselves engaged in one or two toxic relationships. But what matters the most is how you overcome everything and evolve in a much more better person.

you did the right thing. And yes toxic relationships dosen't have to be only with partners but it could be with anyone who we consider close. Love yourself everyday and good luck.

Heyy! So proud of you for stepping out of that relationship which was toxic to you, most people fail to do that. Nd yes, completley agree to your point that its not only romantic relationships that are toxic, they may just be friends, relatives or any one. Any body who tries to lower your self worth or makes u feel bad about yourself is toxic, nd u do not need them in your life! So glad you chose yourself over a guy who didn't even realize your worth 🙂 more power to you!

Nor I will not give any advice or neither I will console you because I am not the person for that. I only want to say that whenever you feel suffocated in any of your relation be it your friendship or relationship or anything, the moment you realize that it is getting suffocating or toxic step out of it and I mean it; JUST STEP OUT and I am saying this because I felt it personally and I am bearing the repercussions of it till now, still even when I'm writing this, at every moment of my life and there is nothing I can do to end these repercussions.

Stay strong....

Hey i am so proud of you that you overcame that. And that you were able to convince him that you two were not good for eact other. I am happy to hear that you are happy. And if in future you need anyone to talk to, well i am here if you want.

I am so glad you found your strength and started living for yourself because it's so important to do that before we go and love another person. Don't listen to people who say that it was just a minor thing and let them invalidate your feelings. What you went through was real and I am so happy that you choose yourself. It's always important to know oneself because only then we can form healthy relationships with anyone.

Hey,

I am so happy that you were able to stand up for urself instead of trying to cope up with his rude behaviour. I totally agree that we should learn to be independent and don't let other opinions make you insecure or comfortable.

Thanks alot for sharing your experience.

Hey Shreya,  firstly I want to say you are really brave that you came out of such situation in such young age. Emotional downs and crisis directly affect other aspects of life, and you overcome that is great achievement. 

It's not your fault that you got stuck over, it's just it's nowadays pattern of society children claiming to be  falling in love when they don't even know what love means actually. And eventually such situations create like yours.

I wish we could work to cure this problem among children. Because lot youth energy is shrunken over this only. 

Wish you do great in your life apart from dragging your past. 🙌

This young age love or may be an infatuation itself is toxic. I accept that not all love is toxic especially the love between brother and sisters, cause what ever they do something against each other the will stand up for each other when there is a problem. Your experience has taken you to a different perspective of seeing the life whereas it doesn't happen for everyone in their life. I'm happy that you have realised what you need to move on with your life. The psychologist who have experienced those situations have a great future because they know what to do or how to treat the patients in the future. 

All the best future Psychologist.

If i get a chance i wish to learn and interact a lot with you dear.

Have a happy life dear.

@shreya As well as everyone who is reading this, a little heads up. Any guy/girl who gets angry when accused of something, there are odds that they might be wrong. Resulting in getting furious about someone pointing out the actual issue. Yet, there are chances they might be having a good enough reason for their behavior. I would suggest, trust your inner voice. The vibe? It is so true. It can help  A LOT. And always communicate with your partner about whatever problem may be, if you both want it to work, you will find a solution, otherwise I am sorry. You need to move on.

Shreya, I'm so sorry for what you had to go through. But I'm also very proud of you for freeing yourself from that toxicity. I'm glad you're in a good place now. 

You're absolutely right. Love is nurturing and helps you grow. It adds to your sense of self. If anyone is making you feel worthless in the name of love or disturb your mental peace, you should distance yourself from them. I'm glad you were able to do that. And no one can ever benefit from forgetting the past- acceptance is the key. You accept whatever happened and you learnt from it and you won't let it influence your present and your future. That toxic relationship was only a bad part of your life and now it's over. It doesn't define you. What you are doing now, in your present, is who you are and that's a strong and beautiful girl. Much love❤️

I'm happy that you have realised what you need to move on with your life.