Does the void last forever? Will it ever get filled? Does time heal everything?
I don’t know answers to these but one thing which life has taught me till now is that with time we get used to this and not sure about it heals or not but eventually, it becomes a part of our life, a part of us, that part which if possible we want to throw out but a part which makes us realize that we are alive.
The feeling of emptiness or I can say feeling that something is missing from you like the last missing piece of the jigsaw puzzle, like the last torn page of your favorite book… something which is painful and leaves you with a void-emptiness.
We often get this feeling in our lives after a major depressive episode in our life be it losing a loved one, getting hurt by our precious people, or sometimes maybe there is not a reason at all.
It is said what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger but is it what we want?
Will anyone prefer to be strong over happy?
Life has its ways of teaching us something. As coal has to go through numerous polishes before turning into diamond in the same way a person has to go through numerous struggles pains to come in its best form.The strange thing which I feel about life is that sadness, failures leave a deeper impact on us than happiness and success.No matter if you have 100 things to be happy about but our mind will be focussed on one sad thing because of which we ofter neglect the happy parts and most important we forget to live in the moments.
Though toxic positivity is something that is often misunderstood. we don’t need to be happy all the time. Life has an equal share of both happiness and sadness and if you feel sad it’s completely fine there is no need to tell yourself to think positive, everyone has problems, etc.
Just stop for a moment and just take a breathe and tell yourself if I accept happiness with courage in the same way let me accept sadness and express it. Neglecting emotions are a more serious thing. If we can’t accept an emotion how can we do justice to that emotion
I would sum up by saying humans are humans because they have feelings be it happiness sadness etc. Don’t suppress your emotions for anyone and make yourself a priority. To spread happiness first make yourself happy. Self-love is the first step towards being a better you and it is not being selfish.
Care for yourself because you are precious